Sunday, March 22, 2009
ytd went for cg at 1.. hehe.. forgot to bring my wallet again.. =( suppose to buy peanuts de in e end i cant buy for them.. sorry.. after tat, we waited for e frenz to come n we start our games.. we played until 2.30 if i'm nt wrong.. haha.. then after tat, we start to hve praise and worship.. during worship, i realli felt e presence of God n i start to cry. He realli strengthen me at tat point of time..
tis song make me starts to put down my burden n jus concentrate on Him alone.
Whose hands are these
Holding mytrapeze
When i fly
You carry me
Whose eyes are these
Watching over me
Eyes of love
You set me free
Unafraid
What's ahead
You are always there before
My whole world
Your design
You are always there
Just right behind
My life is your song
To you my heart belongs
Let all earthlyt crowns
Fade in the shadow of the cross
My life is your song
I'll sing for you alone
Nothing in this world
Can take me away from you
Our love goes on and on
Whose arms are these
Shelter me from harm
In the stormYou are my calm
Whose voice are these
Whisper in my ear
When i'm lost
you always near
In all my life
Be glorified
With Christ in me
No longer I
So take my all
Consuming fire
Your Light in me
I'll it shine
after tat, we hve 2 personal testimony frm minqi n xian bi to share abt how God has changed their life after they received Christ. then offering time.. =Dafter tat we played games before we went to eat.. it was a great time man.. =D then we eat while we playing games too.. haha.. it was realli so much fun with them.. n all e frenz was enjoyed e games as well.. =D
after tat, there is a shuttle bus drive us to Hall 1for svc.. woohoo~ haha.. we went in to pray before e svc start.. then chatted wif e frenz.. =D n e svc start le.. today we sang a new worship song.. hahas.. n after tat, announcement n offeing time.. then finally Pst Kong come back.. woohoo.. today he preach abt e six love busters in a relationship.. but he preach e first three.. hehe..
- love is also an intensive feelings.-loving spouse with will power but no passion, then wat's e point of loving each other in e first place.
-even when the love is gone, you can love each other again as long as you find ways to solve every problems tat u hve encounter.
-a marriage shld nt jus for a distance but for a everlasting life..
-are we drawn away or are we rebound is by checking your love bank for your partners is still positive or became negative.
love buster is a destroyer of Love.
-abusive, controlling, habits.
1 Cor 13:4-7
abusive - a deliberate effort to cause your partner unhappy. it deliberately hurt you by using action, demanding n implusive words tat u gave.
"giver" VS "Taker"
giver - i will do whatever i can to bring benefit and happiness to benefit you to the extend tat i could do..
-Sacrificial love
taker - i will do whatever i can to benefit and happiness to benefit myself to e extend tat i could do.
-you will hve fight if both of u refuse to give in.
intimacy -> conflicts -> withdrawals
givers -> takers -> takers
Love -> Fight -> give up
-you will hard to get it back e intimacy when you start to withdraw n give up.
3 points of Love busters
bad -> Good
1. SELFISH DEMANDS / thoughtful requests
you only think what you want without caring his/her feelings.
how to resolve it?
Policy of Joint Agreement
-Never do anything withour an enthusiastic agreement between you n your partner.
-when you get demanding, you wont get mutually reaction back instead you wil withdraw by him/her
-when you make a request, it might be a yes or a no. if it is a No, discuss for a better solution instead of fighting abt tat issue.
you must hve ZERO TOLERENCE!
2. DISRESPECTFUL JUDGEMENTS/respectful persuasion
-Judgemental person has e attendacy to judge e people without thinking of other people feelings.
-always use "concern" to judge him/her in another way.
-it destroyed e love in e marriage or in an relationship.
-use some words tat could persuase him/her and respect them also.
-try to persuase him/her. if it cant work, STOP e subject first.
-nobody want to know anyone who is disrespectful.
-conflict is jus secondary. loving each other is e main point.
3. ANGRY OUTBURSTS
they shows unhappy feelngs.
it is a form of verbal attack or abusive attack.
purpose - punishment
angry outburst aim to punishment.
love your partner is nt for u to punish him/her, is to love him/her.
-people get angry to get even the scores.
-true love is nt abt being fair, true love is unconditional sacrifice for them.
-ministry is nt jus sacrificing, it is love doin it.
-in a love relationship, u get to come together n love each other n solve problems tgt.
-if u dun hve demanding and judgemental, you will nvr get angry easily and lose your temper.
continue e nxt 3 love busters when pst Kong come back.. woohoo..
after svc end, had our announcement at coffee beans as hall 1 was realli veri cold. hahas. after e announcement, sisters went to e toilets n some walked to e mrt station le. hahas. reached there after we come out frm toilet, do survey for vivian as tat is her project work. =D after tat, we went to tamp to fellowship there. =D chatted along e way. haha. took bus wif grace n minqi. ^^ chatted wif them a lot of things. n ard 11 then i reached home. lols. tat;s all for e day. haha.
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