Saturday, February 7, 2009
today woke up at 10 as my mind is awake.. lols.. then i go washed up n used my com for awhile.. Watching MIT until 11.15 then i went to bathe.. went off at 11.30 to meet joanne.. lols.. n when i reached, i sms her.. she took cab again.. -.- nvm.. wa.. she late.. her supposed to meet at 12.15 but end up late. lols. n her supplier also waiting for her.. diao.. when she reached, i brought her to money changer n change money.. then shw posb n deposit n withdraw money.. lols.. then she met her supplier n gave her e money.. then we quickly rushed to josees house for cg.. we were late ard 25 mins.. sorri..
then kaisheng lead game called bang bang.. lols.. a bit fun la.. hahas.. then after tat cg started.. =) we started praise n worship.. =) then after shared testimony abt wat God has done in our life..=D after testimony, we watched a dvd tat pst Kong talked abt New Life Church in Taiwan.. wow!! seeing so many celebrities getting saved was realli amazed me.. if God can touches celebrities' heart, wat abt outside e celebrities's world? n Pst Kong was saying we shld used more of our talents to reach our to e outside world.. yea.. it quite true.. although it might nt happen it now, but i'm sure sooner or later e day wil come.. =) after tat, it was offering time.. then finished giving offering, Royston giving some announcements.. eh.. it was a quite shockednews to me.. cos it doesnt seems like it wil happen but it still happened.. after wat i hve heard, something realli come into my mind.. it reaali so different.. haiz.. nvm..
after tat, we went off to svc as e time is a bit late le.. some went to buy food, some went to restroom before we walked to e bus stop n wait for e bus.. then after we took bus 38 as e bus had arrived.. ard 5, we reached expo le.. we quickly walked to hall 8 n book seats for our cg.. =D finally we found seats frm e usher.. =) then we went to put our bags n chat.. me n ruiyi went to restroom before svc start.. after we came in ard 5 mins, svc started le.. praise n worship as usual.. but today worship i could realli felt e presence of God.. realli cried out to him n sing praise to Him.. felt so refreshing after worship.. =D today is e first wk of e mth.. so we wil read e apostles creed.. then we wil closed our eyes to asked for forgiveness if we hve sins in our life.. n then after everything, there is some announcements.. after tat is tithes n offerings time.. =D then after tat, pst Kong arrived to preached le.. =)
today's topic is talking abt relationship.. i felt tat i realli know more abt how to handle a relationship more le.. 3 things in a relationship/marriage:
1. Sharing Life
-You got to Dwell with your wife/partner.
-Spend more time with her.
2. Be more considerate and thoughtful
-Be more understanding to your wife/partner.
3. Appreciation
-Respect your partner/wife. Value her.
-everything you demean her, you will lower her value/self-esteem.
1 cor 7:3
when you love somebody, you got to satisfy each other's needs, not jus for u urself.
if both does not meet each other's needs, there wil be conflicts, quarrelling n etc..
you got to have skills in loving and understanding each other in order to hve a good relationship.
hosea 4:6
"knowledge is power"
God not just create us outwardly, but our inward heart.
the top 5 needs for a man is totally different frm e top 5 needs of a woman.
what is an affair?
a sexual realtionsho[ between two people not married to each other.
Affairs-> Sex & Love -> Intimacy
if you don't neet each other needs, under soe circumstances, an affairs started.
we all hve a love bank for e person we like/love/
Love Bank -> Love Units (LU)
Comfortable + 1 LU uncomfortable - 1 LU
Good + 2 LU bad - 2 LU
Very Good + 3 LU very Bad - 3 LU
Exceptionally Good + 4 LU Exceptionally Bad - 4 LU
Exp: if e person meets ur needs or treat u very well, u gave him/her +300.
if e person sometimes treat u gd sometimes treat u bad, u gave him/her +10.
if e person realli treat u worst than tat, u gave him/her -100.
Top 5 needs for woman and man.
Woman
1. Affection
- it glue each other tgt.
Affection symbolises 4 things:
1. Security
2. Protection
3. Comfort
4. Approval
Hugging is e most basic for affection. We got to be expressive.
Men
1. Sexual Fulfillment
1 cor 7:4-5
-when he need a physical needs, u as a wife need to be available.
Man start to turn on quickly than woman. While woman take time to turn on.
it take genuinely love n affection to have a great relationship.marriage.
To be continued nxt wk for e nxt four needs for Woman n man.
hmmm.. it realli veri true ar.. =D after e preaching ended, pst Kong asked all e married couple to hug each other n sang a song to their spouse. =D after tat sang one last last praise song before svc ended. lols. then royston give announcements. brothers a side, sisters a side. lol. a bit funny. hahas.. then after tat we went to Pasir Ris n fellowship. =D we went to buy some food n eat. then after buying, we sitted down eat while chatting. after eating, Royston gt 2 news to announcements. hmmm.. one is one gal frm other cg transfer to our cg to help out. e other one is someone frm our cg is transferring out.. guess is who?? is.. mei yan. was a bit shocked. hmmm.. but realli glad to be in e same cg as her. a great sister. hmmm.. hope she will rise up to another level at other cg. =D after we went to interchange n wait fro bus. hmmm.. as usual, me, joanne, grace, kaisheng, kenneth, xian bi n nicholas took bus 58.. n they dropped down first. after tat i'm e last one to drop down. lols. reached hm at 11. lols. n now i'm blogging. =D
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