Sunday, February 15, 2009
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tis is e valentine gifts given by my cg brothers. so sweet. =)HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO ERICA!!
ytd woke up at 9 plus or 10.. then use com for awhile.. =) ard 2 plus, mum came hm wif wanton mee.. hehe.. then after i ate finished, i went to bathe n changed.. went off at 4. sian.. i forgot to bring my ez-link out frm another wallet.. -.- gt to use coins alle back frm goin out n goin back.. =( then reached expo at ard 4.40.. lols.. i thought i was late but no one was there yet.. diao.. then i went to 7-eleven n buy drinks.. =) then after i saw CK. haha.. then we chatted a little.. joses n kaisheng came.. haha.. wow.. wif a lot of balloons.. one big balloon is for da sao.. hahas.. so sweet lo.. hehe..then after tat everyone came.. they bought some gifts for mei yan as she wil nt be in our cg frm tml onwards.. wow.. it look like it her birthday.. hahas.. then we went to hall 8 find seats n settled down..
at 5.30, svc started.. praise n worship starts.. felt e presence of god during e worship.. was realli telling God abt my burden.. haiz.. nvm.. after tat, is announcement.. then tithes n offering.. then after tat, Pst Kong reached le n start preaching.. hehe.. he gonna continued abt last wk topic.. today is second n tihrd greatest thing for man n woman..
Woman
2. conversation
- woman need a talk to their man, so tat wont feel being alone..
85% of e divorce is due to poor conversation.
-Man talk abt 15,000 words a day while Woman talk abt 30,000 words a day.. WOW!!
-ALL man shld spend 15 hrs/wk to talk to their partner/wife.
-Communication is e key of life.
2 things to help couple to build up their realtionship..
1. wat is e need of hers?
2. hve u meet the needs of hers?
his(mutual interest)hers
-u gt to hve e same interest as her in order to make e relationship getting stronger n stronger.
phil 2:4
-Look out for e interest for other people nt only yours..
-Give her e attention verbally.
Col 4:6 - learn to converse with a caring voice.
-Conversation shld be constructive. BNuild her feelings up.
3. Woman need Honesty n openness.
-Woamn need to trust in u.
-Every woman wants to know everything about u in DETAILS.
if u did not honest with her, she wil STOP trusting u n her love wil get drift apart.
-Every woman has a intuition. even a little white lie tat u told her she also can sense it, cos ur facial expressions can tells her everything.
every man must always tell e truth to your partner/wife.
If u reach a measure of trust, e marriage/relationship wil be enjoyable.
Man
2. Recreational companionship
become his best friend.
-Man need recreation with their partner after a busy day.
Man feel gd if u do spend time to do some recreation wif them.
-U gt to make sacrifice for man so tat they wont have affairs outside.
couple tat place tgt, stay tgt.
3. Attractive Spouse/Partner
1 Sam 16:7 - Man look for outward appearance but God look for e heart.
-Woman is instimulating by hearing while Man is instimulating by sight.
-U gt to dress up nicely in order to attract him.
woman n man hve different needs.
there are 5 major area tat is need for woman.
a) Weight Control
hve a healthy lifestyle.
Ur partners wants u to hve a gd figure.
b) Make-up
-to look more attractive.
Dolling urself up.
c) hairstyle
-Do nt make urself older than ur current age.
d) clothes/Fashion
Dress attractively for your partner no matter u r goin to work or stay at hm.
e) cosmetics surgery (it frm an author)
-Defect on ur body tat make u nt attract to your partner.
our outward appearance make some people feel gd.
- Self-esteem is e foundation of ur life.
tat's all for e day.. to be continued e nxt 2 greatest things abt woman n man. after Pas Kong preached fnish, something happened.. e church staff n him bought rings for e married couple to revow to their wife. Wow!! so romantic la.. n it almost 1/4 of our church goin down.. so cool.. how i wish i hve tat too... but still too early to say. hahas. then after tat they excsnge their rings. n then we hve one last praise song before e svc ended.
tat after tat meet us at e back of e seats.. then they bought some valentine gifts to apprecite e sisters. Wow! so cool.. e pic above is e gifts tat they gave us. nt well taken. sorry. lols. =) thanx brothers!! n they sang a song for us too.. wow!! haha. they our sisters side, they made cookies n muffins for e brothers. wow!! it look nice yea.. hehe.. after we celebrate Erica n Yuting birthday. after tat, they present a birthday card for vivian too cos last last wk we didnt it was her birthday.. then after tat we took our grp photo, we went to E!Hub de superdog there n eat.. we chatted along a way to pasir ris n writing e card for e birthday gals.. =D then after tat we reached E!hub de superdog there n eat. hmmm.. e food there is still ok la but a bit ex. lols.. but it an enjoyable day.. =) it been a long time to hve so much fun eh.. hehe.. after tat, da sao talked to us.. yea.. after she transferred to another cg, there is no more female cgc le.. indeed we hve to grow more spiritually mature n start to do more for e cg.. mei yan, we dun bear to see u leave tis cg too.. we hve so much fun tgt, we wil definitely miss u de.. as u r goin to another cg, u gt more things to learn in tat cg too.. e sisters wil nt let u down.. =) be happy gal. =)
then after we went to wait for bus.. we keep on missed our bus.. haha. then after i went to e restroo, then e bus came. then me, xian bi, grace, joanne n kaisheng took e bus.. wow.. it alrdy 12 plus at tat time.. haha.. first time fellowship wif cg until so late. lols. then after tat took bus hm wif xian bi. he shared a lot abt his NS life. it look really tough yea.. but i'm sure God wil strengthen u all e way to ur 2 yrs NS life de.. after tat reached e bus stop, i quickly went hm n bathe. changed le n went to slp.. tiring day but enjoyable day.. =D
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